
Solange Knowles did it. Chrisette Michelle did too. Just recently, Janet Jackson made waves with a similarly dramatic style. And now I'm hearing a flurry of like-minded comments.
"Now that * insert celebrity here * did it, I feel inspired to cut my hair off, too!"
Hold up, wait a minute. I completely understand the allure of chopping off your hair, and for many, it's a significant part of the natural journey. But it's important to not get caught up in the hype. Here are three things to consider when you plan to cut your hair supershort.
1. Are you doing this for the right reasons? What exactly makes you want to cut your hair? Is it because Chrisette Michele looked so GORGEOUS with her hair shorn off? Don't forget -- she made the point to express that her haircut was done for truth, not for beauty. For Chrisette, it was about the physical -- rescuing her damaged beyond repair tresses, but it was also about the mental, and embracing her natural beauty. If you're going to do a big chop or go really short, know exactly why you're doing it. It shouldn't be just because a famous person blazed the trail.
2. Are you prepared for the comments? People just LOVE to say something about your hair when you go short. Trust, I speak from experience. People asked me if I was depressed. Or TOLD me "you must be depressed." One ex-friend memorably described my haircut as "The Menopause." And I am TOO through with people who associate short hair with coming out, or making a statement about one's sexuality. Please keep your assumptions and ignorance to yourself. For some, going short is just a change, a chance to reinvent one's self. Many times people will put their baggage on you because of your hair decisions. I say don't let em.
3. Is this a one time thing, or do you plan to upkeep your new 'do? Cutting your hair off can feel extremely liberating, but it does require decision making at some point. If you've made the decision to cut your hair because it was damaged and you're aiming to recover your hair's healthy beauty, then maybe you want to grow it long again. If you want to cut your hair to feel free, and to be summertime chic - then you may need to find a stylist who can help you maintain your new look with a trim every three or four weeks (depending on your length, some styles require even more frequent shape ups!).
The salient point is, do YOU. Don't make a dramatic hair or fashion choice based on a celebrity. Because if they feel like it they can whip on an uberexpensive hair piece or wig tomorrow, and those of us who live in the real world must learn to live with and love our hair choices. So if at the end of this you still feel the burning desire to hack off your locks - I wish you all the best! Go bold and go brave!

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By: alicia on 5/30/2010 7:28PM
Great read and great advice...anything beauty and fashion related should be a personal decision. I tried short hair once...glad I did it in college but I realize that I am a long hair person. Need to have enough hair to have a ponytail!
Alicia
http://www.fashionasmusings.blogspot.com/
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By: JoyCe Blue on 6/12/2010 11:45PM
Very Short Hair : I cut my very thick & wavy roots hair in
1980. I have never let it grow back. It SO liberating & for me part of the conformation of LOVING it short was the
feel of the barber clippers on my scalp. It just soothing.
Presently my hair is 1/2 inch long and almost white. True
it does require frequent trips to a barber to keep it even
It has become my personal signature.Next week I will be
bleaching it white. No more battling the gray hairs that
stray lifelessly & don't blend in with the other hairs.I
love coloring it also because it gives my face a warm glow.Very short hair is not for every woman. It does call attention to your face & the natural shape of yr. skull Think about it before you do it. I love hats of any kind
and don't care for wigs.I have 3 sisters & we all have cut
our hair very short.It is simply beautiful to me. I'll keep it short for as long as I live.
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By: jaygirl on 5/31/2010 12:27AM
I'm with you, JoyCe Blue! I haven't had hair longer than 1/2 to 1 inch in YEARS and probably never will. Short hair is indeed liberating and even if I hadn't been told I wear it well, I probably still would! :-)
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By: tar on 5/30/2010 8:34PM
who cares...it grows back
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By: GONNA ALWAYS HAVE MY SAY on 5/30/2010 9:18PM
BIG DEAL!
MOST OF THESE CELEBS HAVE SO MUCH FAKED WEAVED-IN HAIR ANYWAY.
I'M SURE THEY HAD VERY LITTLE OF THEIR "REAL HAIR" TO CUT OFF ANYWAY!
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By: ADMR on 5/31/2010 6:41AM
AMEN...SEE
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By: Nicole on 5/31/2010 3:39PM
I was thinking the same thing - how can scalp breathe with all that mess on their head
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By: dree on 5/30/2010 11:20PM
I LOVE this article. I recently cut my hair (i went from a cute, safe bob to a cut similar to keri hilson's) It was sooo liberating for me. I felt like i was at a point in my life where i was turning over a new leaf and getting rid of my hair was almost like a way of shedding bad influences that were in my life previously. i love my hair now and so do a ll the loving, positive people around me. =]
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