By Gennifer Miller, HealthyTextures.com

What is Stretching?
"Stretching" is a black hair care technique that means simply increasing the time between relaxer treatments. Most stylists recommend waiting at least 6 to 8 weeks before getting a touch-up. However, some women prefer to "stretch" for 10,12, 14 weeks or longer.
Stretching is a great way to avoid overlapping, which is when the relaxer comes into contact with previously treated hair. Relaxers are only meant for virgin hair so when it starts processing already treated hair, it further weakens the strands and can lead to breakage.
In addition, touchups can be expensive! Stretching is a great way to save your hard earned money!
Lastly, stretching can help you reacquaint yourself with your natural African-American hair texture. Learning how to work with your new growth, instead of against it, may introduce you to new hair styling methods and techniques.
Understanding New Growth
Your new growth (on average) grows about a half an inch in a four-week period. When your new growth starts to appear, you will have two completely different types of hair on your head; a weaker chemically treated section and a stronger virgin section. These two types of hair meet at the "demarcation line."
African-American hair tends to grow in spirals. The tightness of these spirals is dictated by our DNA -- some will have loose spirals, some tighter coils. Each new spiral strand grows next to another spiral strand. Naturally, these spirals will start intertwining and locking together. As you comb and brush your hair, this locking will cause you to put stress on the demarcation line and weaker, chemically-treated strands. This is why your hair seems to break more often around touch up time.
In addition, this locking will make it more difficult for the natural oils to travel down your hair shaft. When your hair is straight, the oils can just slide down easily. This is why when black hair is flat ironed or freshly relaxed, it seems to get dirty faster. When you have new spirally growth, it has to travel down the equivalent of a hair rollercoaster (often against gravity) to reach the ends.
How to Start Stretching
Ok, so how can we get some of the benefits of stretching (less overlapping, more shoes, etc.) while minimizing some of the negative aspects (breakage, dryness, etc.)? I'd recommend that you start by setting targets or goals. Each time, try stretching one week later than your previous stretching period. So, if you usually relax every 8 weeks, try to wait 9 weeks... then 10 weeks and so on. Keep a journal of the products and styling methods you used. This way, it will be easier to identify the "best practices" for your hair.
Maintain the Moisture/Protein Balance
Make sure to keep up your conditioning regimen. Pick a conditioner with protein and moisture and deep condition consistently, making sure to concentrate the product on the demarcation line. This will help strengthen that area and to prepare it for your next relaxer treatment. Conditioning will also help prevent dryness and breakage on the chemically treated strands.
Keep the New Growth Supple and Strong

Conditioning my roots makes stretching really easy for me. When my new growth starts to get thick, I use a conditioner that is designed to condition the scalp and roots like Keracare Dry and Itchy Scalp conditioner or Paul Mitchell Tea Tree conditioner. I apply this to my scalp and roots and let it sit for 10-20 minutes. It really helps to keep my new growth detangled and supple.
If you don't want to condition your scalp, try using a little bit of S-curl, castor oil or Wild Growth oil on the roots. This works really well on air-dried hair and braid-out/twist-out styles. However, some ladies do find that these products build up on the scalp over time.
Use Products to Help Smooth the Textures
There are some products that are designed to help blend or make your new growth more manageable. For a splurge, try the Mizani Thermasmooth system. For a save, try Soft and Beautiful Extend-a-Perm. Some other products are not exclusively designed to help with new growth but are still great picks. For instance, a lot of women have had success with Aveda Damage Remedy or the Paul Mitchell Skinny line.
Styling with New Growth
If you want super straight roots with a straight style, try roller setting and blowing out the roots or flat-ironing the new growth. Or, try blow-drying the roots to blend new growth and then allowing the ends of the hair to air dry. For a visual aid, check out the Healthy Textures' Guide to Roller Setting, which shows you how to wash, condition, roller set and wrap for a straight, sleek style.
If you don't want to use heat on your new growth, try curly hairstyles. A tight roller-set with small rollers or a curly twist-out/braid-out is a great way to blend new growth with existing hair. You make your hair sleek and smooth by slicking hair back and covering with a silk scarf. You can easily twist, roll or braid the ends for a curly up do.
Now, if you are doing everything and you still have breakage and excessive dryness, you might have a stretching threshold. Listen to your hair -- don't stretch just to stretch. Everyone's hair is different and some can tolerate stretching more than others. So, if you find stretching to be counter-productive than it may not be for you. Just try to wait at least 8 weeks before your next touch-up.
I hope this was helpful. For more styling techniques and tips, check me out at www.healthytextures.com. Thanks!


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By: celeste on 4/07/2008 10:59PM
VERY INTERESTING COMMENTS. I FEEL ONE SHOULD DO AS ONE FEELS. I HAVE NEVER HAD A RELAXER IN MY LIFE AND I AM 48 YEARS YOUNG. I HAVE NOT BEEN TO A SALON SINCE 1979 WHEN I WAS PREGNANT WITH MY LAST CHILD. I PRESS AND CURL, SOMETHING I'VE DONE MY SELF SINCE I WAS ABOUT 13, WITH MY MOTHER'S INSTRUCTION. MY HAIR IS EXTREMELY HEALTHY, I WASH IT TWICE A WEEK, DANDRUFF, AND PRESS AND WRAP IT, FRENCH ROLL IT, OR ROLL IT UP WITH BROWN PAPER BAGS FOR NICE CURLS. MY HAIR IS DOWN TO MY BRA STRAP AND I CONDITION IT A LOT WITH PROTEIN AND MOISTURE. I LOVE MIZANI AND MOTIONS PRODUCTS. I CLIP MY ENDS EVERY 2 MONTHS OR SO BY BRAIDING IT IN PLAITS AND EVENLY TRIMMING THE ENDS. I DO USE A BLACK RINSE FOR THE GRAYS. A LOT OF WOMEN ARE AMAZED THAT I DO NOT RELAX AND I'VE TOLD THEM PRESSING WORKS FOR ME, THEY POOH-POOH THIS, IE; "MY HAIR WILL SWEAT OUT" OR "THAT'S WORK" OR "THAT'S OLD FASHIONED AND TAKES TOO MUCH TIME". THEY'VE TOLD ME HORROR STORIES OF CHEMICAL BURNS, UNHEALTHY HAIR, WAITING 7-8 HOURS BECAUSE OF CLIENTELE BACKUP AT THE SALON ETC., THEN THEY COME TO ME FOR HEALTHY HAIR ADVICE BECAUSE OF THE BREAKAGE, ALOPECIA OF THEIR EDGES, HAIR THINNING AND SO FORTH. USING NATURAL OILS, JOJOBA, CARROT, OLIVE, CASTOR, ROSEMARY ETC., ARE REALLY GOOD.
I DO PRE-POOH WITH GLOVERS MANGE, AN OLD FASHIONED HAIR MEDICATION FOR DANDRUFF, THAT I'VE USED SINCE I WAS A CHILD. TIE YOUR HAIR DOWN EVERY TIME YOU LAY DOWN. SLEEP ON A SATIN PILLOW CASE WORKS TOO, IF A DOO-RAG OR A SILK SCARF WON'T STAY ON. A GOOD SCALP MASSAGE A COUPLE OF TIMES A WEEK AND OIL THE HAIR AS NECESSARY. IF YOU PRESS AND CURL, USE CREME PRESS, NOT PRESSING OILS, AND ALWAYS TEST THE COMB TO MAKE SURE IT'S NOT TOO HOT. LET THE HAIR DRY NATURALLY AS OFTEN AS YOU CAN. IF NOT, BLOW DRY ON A LOW SETTING, NEVER HOT. DRINK PLENY OF WATER AND EAT LOTS OF VEGGIES AND FRUITS (FRESH). I PERSONALLY HAVE NOTHING AGAINST COSMETOLOGISTS. THEY'VE GOT TO EAT TOO. I JUST PREFER TO DO IT MYSELF. PEACE...
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By: Keisha on 4/16/2008 11:31AM
As a hair stylist I always tell my clients to minimize heat styling and harsh chemicals as a first step in growing hair. Recently I have also been recommending a specific hair vitamin that I took in the past by a company called Horizons. I believe that their website is www.horizonshaircare.com For anyone who is trying to grow their hair fast I would suggest that you keep it very moisturized and try these vitamins they have truly been saving alot of people's hair.
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By: Lisa on 5/01/2008 11:07AM
UGHHH! Some of these "natural" women irk my nerves! So you have natural hair and you love it. That's great... for YOU. I have relaxed hair and it's long and it's beautiful and it gets many compliments from all types of people. So why should I trade this for a natural style to please other women? The majority of you ladies who "went natural" did so because you had problems and issues with relaxers and chemicals. Well I DON'T. Most importantly, everyone does NOT look good with natural hair as you seem to suggest. I've seen some tore up natural hair with my own eyes. It isn't for everyone, and surely not for me. Also, you can "throw your money away" on natural styles (twists, blow outs, presses, etc.) just as easily as you can on relaxed styles. My natural friend stays in the salon while I do my hair at home, so who's throwing money away? Hair is personal. What works for you will not work for everyone else and will not look good to everyone else. So why don't you all stop trying to force your beliefs on other people and let us LIVE! Oh, and as far as "using what god gave us...", that's another load of crap. God gave us "natural" body scents and pheromones, but we cover those up with CHEMICAL soaps, lotions and perfumes. God gave us the skin he wanted us to have, but we cover that with makeup. So unless you're TOTALLY 100% natural, then save that "what god gave us" speech... and keep about 10 ft. away from me because you probably smell a little tart. With that being said, this is a great article for people with RELAXED HAIR. I don't know why these other folks are even commenting! I'm happy with my hair (I guess that's why it's called a "relaxer") and if foregoing the chemicals means turning into an tight, arrogant azz like some of these posters, I will bathe in relaxer and other chemicals!
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By: Jasmine on 8/02/2008 1:52PM
Charlene, MOST professionals ENCOURAGE knowing about your own hair, and taking care of your hair at home, after all most pro's had to start somewhere, so you might want to get your knowledge right before you start making assumptions. To those of you who don't think relaxers are ethical...good for you! I personally love getting my hair relaxed because I don't have time to deal with my natural hair. Thanks for the article!!!
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By: brianna on 10/04/2008 7:12PM
to the hairstylist that said we shouldnt do our own hair and we shouldnt make our own "cure" to our own hair that's bull.ever since having my hair broken off and googling for solutionsm, i come across the infamous hair forums!!!for the first time my hair is almost apl!!when i went to a stylist my was healthy but it WAS NOT growing..eversince i STarted "stretching" wirh the help of macherieamore,my hair has started growing faster (with bi weekly washings).the triming every two months did not ever help me at all.stretCing and DEEP CONDITIONS have...so keep that to yourself i like my underprocessed longer hair!!!
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By: Athena on 4/20/2009 11:14AM
I agree with one of the other persons who said "forget relaxers" i have been relaxer free for about 2 years now. It was not an easy transition, but I did it. The problem with our hair with out a relaxer is that we dont know how to manage it. You have to forget about the wanting to seem normal to everyone that is not black and go with the flow-or the pattern of your hair and just give yourself time to figure out what your curl pattern is-once you figure that out then all you need is a good leave-in conditioner-not the watery stuff but a good one that will coat and protect your hair.
I have one question for everyone-even though i am relaxer free,I still weave my hair from time to time, but when I buy "100% human hair" it not always-how do hair companies get away with saying that it is when you and everyone else knows that its not once you have put it on your head? I think this is fraud-or false advertising.
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By: Adrienne on 2/20/2010 7:08PM
I know this information is old, but I felt compelled to comment. As a woman that has had texlaxed/relaxed hair for the last 3 years, and natural hair for the 9 years prior, I feel like I can speak from several perspectives.
First of all...Natural ladies...this article is not for you. When I was rocking my afro puffs, i did not troll the interwebs looking for relaxed sistas to antagonize. When I was natural, I was doing it for me and not as some political display or to say "I am smarter, better, love myself more, etc..."
We are all of African descent. As such we are queens, be we kinky, press-n-curled, fried, dyed, or laid to the side. Respect that.
To the hair dresser:
My hairdresser supports me and my self hair care. he knows he only sees me evrey 10 weeks for a touch up. He praises me for the condition my hair is in when I see him. I pay him and make an appointment for 10 weeks later. He supports my taking care of my hair the way that I see fit and doing what works for me. What is wrong with having intelligent clientele that make decisions about their long term hair goals? Why is the only place to get healthy hair a salon. Why does that not make any sense?
For to long, the Black hair care industry has taken advantage of Black women's alleged inability to care for their own hair. Having natural hair all those years taught me about my hair. Texlaxed for 2 years taught me new things. Now, as a relaxed head, I have learned even more. The truth is hair is not grown in the salon. It is what happens outside the salon that determines the health of ones hair. That includes deep conditioning ($20 a pop in most salons), protective styling (put down the flat iron), an diet (has nothing to do with a salon).
Your statements seem based in genuine concern...but I also detect a bit of fear. If you are a great stylist, information such as this will only make your job easier and more profitable.
Think about it. When people see my fabulous hair, they ask me who my hair dresser is and I tell them that I do my own hair, but Mr. Bailey is the only man to give me a relaxer. His business is booming.
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