
Q: How do you get the textured fro look featured on the cover of your book for natural girls and those growing out their relaxers?
A. The 'TWIST OUT' Look is one of my first hairstyles, originally published in Essence Magazine, back in 1993. I updated the style in 2004 in larger twists to create more fullness for the cover of my book. The first time I created this style, I received a call from Mikki Taylor, the Beauty & Cover Director of Essence Magazine and I was asked to create the look for a dancer. The photo shoot was created for the model for a beauty layout. And Voila! The Twist Out was born.
If you go to chapter nine, 'Twist & Turns' in TEXTURED TRESSES, you'll find step by step instructions, including products, on how to create this look. This style can also be achieve on relaxed hair, softened or texturized hair and on women growing out their relaxers too! It is a very healthy way to grow out a relaxer system. Chapter eight has an image of the 'FLAT TWIST' set which is achieved by creating a two strand twist set on the base of the scalp, like cornrows, which also can create a wavy curl pattern. (Use a foam letting lotion or a moisture-based gel or curly holding product to achieve this look, like Jane Carter Solution's Wrap & Set). If you really don't want to re-create it yourself, just bring the book with you to your local stylist and let her create the style with her own flair. This style is for all to see and create, whether your are a stylist or reader who wants to rock a 'free textured fro'
Q: I've been receiving questions on the NEW HAIR APPARENT blog in reference to relaxed hair: "Don't forget about us!"
A: The HAIR APPARENT blog is for all hair textured site visitors, whether your hair is straight, wavy, curly, coily, relaxed or softened. Women of color come in all nationalities and hair textures. Even if you wear extensions or braids. I am a licensed cosmetologist, master colorist, master precision cutter, and a CURLY TEXTURED EXPERT. So ladies, what that really means is: I understand all textures, whatever your heritage may be: AFRICAN, EUROPEAN, ASIAN or LATIN. We are all born with natural, straight or textured hair, then as we mature, we experiment with different options: relaxers, color, extensions, braids, weaves, wigs etc. My assignment is to to give you options and versatility with healthy measures. To bring you information and knowledge about products, hairstylists and hair techniques that are good and beneficial to your hair and lifestyle... We have all, in some way or another, abused and destroyed our hair for so many years. So, now that we are the TEXTURE of CHOICE for major beauty, fashion, music and entertainment.companies, let's keep it that way, by creating GREAT HEALTHY HAIR, in any hairstyle.
Q: Color - What type of stylist do I go to?
A: Color is a specialty and not every stylist can color your hair to the utmost perfection. So, look for someone who has been certified with a master color certificate. Color companies often have a list of salons they recommend on their websites. Redkin.com, Matrix.com and Mizani.com are just a few. You can also go to Essence.com and look under their Salon Network guide, which will list the specialty of each stylist and salon. There is a post coming up in October solely on color.

Q: Where can I find a stylist who works with natural free styles not just Braids and Locs?
A: Locticians and natural hair specialists usually work only on braids and locs. Any stylist should be able to work on natural free textures. The question is -- do they want to? Natural hair is often fuller, healthier and thicker and a great amount of hair to handle. You have the versatility to wear your mane in many styles, whether free, natural set styles and or thermal straight. To find a stylist go to Motowngirl.com, Naturallycurly.com or Essence.com (Salon network). All of these sites have a salon/stylist directory.
Q: I want to read about experiences from a relaxed hair product junkie.
A: No worries -- you will hear all the product information you can stand, as I was a relaxer girl (and I loved my long relaxed hair) from the age of 11 years old until I was about 25. Wearing a Textured Free Fro is my style of choice, but it doesn't have to be yours. But, let's keep an open mind here... the world is not filled with only one thing. And rest assured, I am a product junkie... You don't want to miss out on all the product junkie information we are about to explore -- for all hair textures: relaxed, textured free styles, locs, braids and wigs.
Each month I'll answer five site visitors -- your FAQs. So, remember to ask your questions at the beginning of the month and look out for the answers at the end of the month.
Thanks.
Diane Lym-tai Da Costa


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By: Mira on 7/05/2008 9:22PM
CAN YOU TELL ME WHERE ARE THE BEST LOCTICIANS LOCATED AT IN N.Y MAINLY IN THE BROOKLYN AREA?
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By: JustLocs on 7/21/2010 10:46AM
There are many excellent locticians in Brooklyn, New York. I am one of them. I have been 'Rockin the Locs' in Stuyvesant-Heights for over 20 years. At Just Locs Thats ALL We Do!
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By: doris on 3/09/2009 11:51PM
Regarding natural kinky black hair, you wrote,
" A: Locticians and natural hair specialists usually work only on braids and locs. Any stylist should be able to work on natural free textures. The question is -- do they want to?"
Well haven't you made it clear that you don't like working on kinky black hair.
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By: Ms. J on 5/07/2009 12:27AM
Hello,
I've been thinking about going natural for awhile now, but I don't want to cut my hair. My hair is also very coarse. What's the best method for going from relaxed to straight without me having to basically start brand new?
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By: Shennae on 11/08/2011 10:09AM
My hair is relaxed and I am not sure if I can stand going back natural, but I would like to be able to be curly some day and straight another time with out cutting off my permed hair. What would you recommend I should use interms of products and Advice
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By: Lisa Floyd on 1/13/2013 8:25PM
I'm mixed with Dominican/White. I have sorta naturally wavy hair that takes a perm well, for the curls, but I'm wondering if I can do a twist out on my hair and have it work? What would I need to use as far as gel or foam or what? And do I need something to hold the ends as mine won't stay together. Would bobby pins work? Thanks so much! Lisa
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By: linda aka lindalu on 9/27/2007 12:39PM
Oh! I can speak on sum hair OR her if you from there. I'mma cancer survivor! Say it y'all, s-u-r-v-i-v-o-r! ALL my hair/her was gaaawwwnnn. Chile, I was bald. lol Well, my hair dun growed ALL da way back. I'ts long altho thin around the temples. Anyway, the point being, I permed my hair (thas what we called it in the hood, in the glorius 70s) It wasn't 'till I moved to OC that I started HAVING to call it a relaxer. Lawdhamercy ! Good thang I didn't ask for a press n' curl lol I been using REVLON relaxer for about 28 years, consecutively. I love the feel of my hair against me neck and down my back. Especially in the wind and in the summertime. When, "we ALL get down in da summah" I can't get that, wearing my hair in a (what we used to call a natural or natchruh) HOWEVER, in my high school senior picture I am rockin a big 'fro. What I used to do was wash my hair, comb it out lhm then, roll it up on those pink sponge curlers. Oh yeah, I'd TWIST it first then, roll it on up. Now, it DID used tuh take 'couple days to completely dry causa it bein' long. See, the natchruh was cool but, it be really takin a whole lotta time to be so-called natural. And, WHEN and WHY did white people begin to use picks??? lolol I LUHS my hair!
I luvs brushin it, the easy, smooth way the comb goes thru it.I even luh tossin it around. Yeah, I SAID that. I got me a lonoong ponytail AND, it ALL mine. It would be waaay to much work/werk for me to brush and comb and keep DEtangled my hair in it's natural state. It's my choice. It's evryones OWN personal choice.
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By: linda aka lindalu on 9/27/2007 3:06PM
...and when I was ready to grow out my perm, or was forced to, due to usually monitary reasons lol then, I would get my hair cornrowed/braided, while it grew on out. Long ones tho (extensions of cose) lol Then I could still be swingin' & flippin' dat hair. But, sumtime shoot, those braids be hurtin' You be able tuh slap somebody wid em' lol
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By: linda aka lindalu on 9/27/2007 3:08PM
oh yeah, one mo' thang. The HORROR of those pink foam rollers! And, you KNOW we didn't use no end papers 'cept when you got it did in the shop. Oh yeah, and it wasn't called the "hhod" in the 70s. It was still the neighborhood then. Oh yeah, AND the "powers that be" also invented the term south South Central LosAngeles. When I was comin up dey was south la, where I lived. the east SIDE, where da po' black folks lived. East la, where da mexicans lived (srry, latinos). And the North, like North Hollywood/Melrose/Fairfax/Sunset area. Which remained a mystery, sort of unknown forbidden to go that far territory. That is till' I was a senior in highschool... later
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By: Bishop James R Winfree Sr, on 9/28/2007 7:36AM
QUESTION WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH THE LIFE GOD GAVE YOU?
We all know about questions; we ask them because we lack information, we seek counsel, we want to hear the sort of answers that will reassure us, comfort us, strengthen our security, and for a host of other reasons.
We ask questions because answers don't come readily in life and all too often it seems the universe gives them up grudgingly.
There are some who have grown so tired of asking questions, for want of significant and fulfilling answers, that they boldly declare that "there are no answers!"
Has it ever occurred to you, that nothing has ever occurred to God? God is THE one and only, original "KNOW IT ALL" and to such a Person, questions are superfluous.
Yet God has asked questions in the BIBLE.
He asked Adam, "Where art thou?"
He asked the two angels who accompanied Him on the way to Sodom and Gomorra mm or ha: "Shall I hide from my friend, Abraham that thing which I do?"
He asked Moses at the burning bush, "What is it that you have in your hand?"
Yet God needn't have asked such questions of these men, and the many questions He has asked others in the Word, in order to obtain answers: He asked these questions for the purpose of drawing attention to something, to lead a person towards a certain point that God wanted them to consider.
Yet the questions that we ask, particularly of people whom we respect spiritually, such as our pastors, elders, and those who have known the LORD for many more years than we have, we ask because we are mystified concerning God and His ways. Indeed, doesn't the WORD itself say that His ways "are past finding out"? For as the stars are above the earth, so are His thoughts above our own.
He is infinite, and we are finite. He exists outside of space and time while we dwell within these restraints and have done so ever since our conception. And while we are in this world, we see things spiritual as in a glass darkly, but once we "shuck off this mortal coil" as Hamlet said, we step out of the finiteness of time and space, and we shall see our LORD face to face; on that Day we shall know (the LORD) even as we are known (by Him). See 1 Cor 13:
Once we are with Him, in the fullness of the glory of God's kingdom, all questions will vanish away like smoke in a gale force wind, they shall be consumed like paper in an inferno, they shall melt like snow on a furnace.
Basking in the very presence of God we will no longer have the itch, or sometimes the torture, of unanswered questions.
And yet while on this earth, during this life, questions arise, and it is right that they do so! For it is not only important to ask questions, but also to know the reason why we ask them; in order to obtain the right answers we must ask the right questions.
I'm so well reminded of my own personal encounter with the LORD, my spiritual experience of being born again in Christ. Sometime in the near future I will transcribe my testimony on this BLOG for any to read who care to do so.
It was during this time in my 'B.C.' days, that I asked many questions that none had answers (to my satisfaction) to. Why am I here? What is my purpose in life? What significance will there be to my life? What will happen to me after I die? What is the plan that God has for me? How can I be assured that when I face Him, I will be granted access to heaven, and His Divine approval? And the big whammy of a question: How can I become righteous in the eyes of God??
Do you have someone that you know who is not yet saved? Do they shun and even ridicule the answers that you seek to provide for them? It behooves the saint to pray, and ask the LORD to 'plague' the minds of the lost with QUESTIONS. For its in these that the Holy Spirit can begin to do His work.
Questions have answers, and its in answers that we discover truth, and those of us who know the LORD Jesus Christ, know in fact that He is the Living Embodiment of Truth, He is Truth made flesh.
Ultimately any question worth asking regarding this life will inevitably find its answer in the Person of Jesus Christ, the LORD of all.
For more answers go to http://www.freewebs.com/winfreeministries
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